Japan for a Wedding
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Vermilion torii gates at Fushimi Inari with nobody on the path, just before 7 in the morning

Japan for
a Wedding

17 days, late Sep to mid Oct5 hotels60–86°F

A wedding in Osaka was the reason for the trip, and we built two and a half weeks of Japan around it: four nights in Kyoto, three in Osaka for the wedding, and nine in Tokyo, five of them out by Tokyo Disney and four in Ginza. Family joined for the middle stretch, so there are slow days, a zoo, a baseball game and two Disney parks in here alongside the temples.

Late September and early October turned out to be a lovely time to go: warm days in the high 70s and low 80s and only a couple of rainy afternoons. The wedding days are the couple's, so they stay off this page.

What we'd tell a friend

  1. Land early, go straight to Kyoto

    Our red-eye reached Haneda before 5 AM. The first Keikyu train leaves for Shinagawa around 5:26, and from there the Shinkansen gets you to Kyoto in a little over two hours. We were at our Kyoto hotel by 9:30 and had a full first day.

  2. Send your bags ahead

    Hotel-to-hotel luggage delivery is cheap and reliable in Japan. We booked TEBURA-KUN at 9:30 AM in Kyoto and our cases were waiting at the Osaka hotel by 2:30 PM, which left us free to spend the day at the aquarium and a ball game. For longer hops, the front desk can send bags by Yamato for next-day delivery.

  3. Book seat E for Mount Fuji

    On the Tokaido Shinkansen, seats D and E face Fuji in both directions. On a clear day it shows up about 45 minutes from Tokyo, near Shin-Fuji. Big suitcases (over 160 cm when you add up all three sides) need a seat with an oversized-baggage area, booked when you buy the ticket, or there's a ¥1,000 fee on board.

  4. Do Kyoto's big sights at dawn

    Kiyomizu-dera opens at 6 AM and Fushimi Inari never closes. We were at both before 7, with the paths nearly to ourselves. By 10 they're shoulder to shoulder.

  5. Go to a baseball game

    Even if you don't follow baseball. The cheering sections sing for every batter, the beer comes to your seat in a backpack keg, and a weeknight game in Osaka was easy to get tickets for.

  6. Book the timed things early

    teamLab Planets, the Disney parks and the popular restaurants all sell out. Tokyo Disney tickets are dated and priced by day. Hikiniku to Come in Kyoto releases its seats a week ahead.

  7. Use taxis in Kyoto

    Kyoto's buses are slow and packed. For two people, a taxi or Uber across the old town was usually ¥1,300 to ¥2,000, and both work fine with an English app.

  8. Stay by the parks for Disney, then move to the city

    Five nights near Tokyo Disney Resort meant short rides to both parks, and four in Ginza put the rest of Tokyo a short train or taxi away.

The route

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1KyotoFri70–84°F
  1. Haneda
  2. Shinagawa
  3. Kyoto

Overnight flight2h15 Shinkansen

A dawn landing, the first train west, and kaiseki for lunch

  • The overnight flight from Los Angeles landed at Haneda before 5 AM. Fill in Visit Japan Web before you fly: it gives you QR codes for immigration and customs and makes a dawn arrival quick.
  • From Haneda it's about 20 minutes on the Keikyu line to Shinagawa, then the Tokaido Shinkansen to Kyoto. We bought tickets in the smartEX app, which lets you pick seats and change trains on your phone.
  • A taxi from Kyoto Station to Higashiyama takes about 15 minutes. Our driver used a translation app to give us a running tour of the neighbourhoods on the way.
  • One night at Park Hyatt Kyoto, on the slope below Kodaiji. We walked in at 9:30 AM to a bowl of matcha in the lounge, and the room was ready by late morning.
  • Lunch at Sanso Kyoyamato, the historic ryotei next to the hotel, now with two Michelin stars. We booked the lunch kaiseki through the hotel a few days ahead.
  • At dusk, a walk along Nene-no-Michi, the stone lane below Kodaiji, and up to the lit-up Yasaka Pagoda once the day trippers have gone.
  • Dinner at Yasaka, the hotel's counter restaurant: seven courses cooked in front of you, from Omi beef tenderloin to Kyotango rice with hairy crab, corn and chorizo. A splurge, but a memorable first night.
2KyotoSat64–82°F
  1. Kiyomizu-dera
  2. Gion
  3. Ninenzaka

On footone taxi

Kiyomizu-dera before breakfast, then Gion and the slopes

  • Up the hill to Kiyomizu-dera just before 7 AM. It opens at 6 (¥500), and early is the only time the wooden stage isn't packed. The shops on the approach are still shuttered, which is part of the charm.
  • Back for the Japanese breakfast, made by the Kyoyamato kitchen. It's limited each morning, so the hotel sells it ahead as an add-on; ask when you book.
  • Late morning in Gion: the canal and willows of Shirakawa, then Hanamikoji. The side lanes off Hanamikoji are private, and there are fines for photos there, so stay on the main street.
  • On the way, the Miffy shop in Gion, which is all plush bunnies and Miffy-shaped sweets.
  • Afternoon on Ninenzaka and Sannenzaka, the stepped lanes below Kiyomizu: the Ghibli shop Donguri Republic, a crepe-fabric crafts store, Kyoto pickles from Nishiri, and tea at GOKAGO. Earlier, on the way down from Kiyomizu, a warm slice from Apple Pie Lab on the Sannenzaka steps.
  • Then a short taxi to Hyatt Regency Kyoto for three nights, across from Sanjusangendo. For dinner, tsukemen at Tsurukame off Shijo, then a matcha drink and a walk along the river end of Pontocho.
3KyotoSun62–86°F
  1. Fushimi Inari
  2. Gion
  3. Teramachi
  4. Nishiki

Taxison foot

Fushimi Inari at dawn, Ippodo tea, and Hikiniku to Come

  • Up early for Fushimi Inari. The shrine is open around the clock and free, and the Keihan line from Shichijo, near our hotel, gets there in a few minutes. Early, the lower tunnels of torii gates are quiet enough for photos with nobody in them, and it stays cool for the climb.
  • On the way back, a stop at Hikiniku to Come in Gion to register for a dinner slot. It's the hamburger steak counter where the patties are grilled over charcoal right in front of you, one at a time, with freshly cooked rice. Seats also open online a week ahead and go fast; if you miss those, register at the shop early in the day.
  • Then tea at Ippodo's main store on Teramachi. The Kaboku tearoom opens at 10 and is first come, first served, so be there before it opens.
  • Lunch was two kinds of cold soba at a counter near Nishiki, then Nishiki Market, including the Snoopy tea house. It's narrow and gets very busy by noon. Eating while walking is frowned on, so stop at the stall to finish your snack.
  • The afternoon brought the only real rain of the Kyoto days, so we rested, then went back to Gion for our 7 PM hamburger steak. Worth the effort: the first patty arrives straight off the grill, and you get three over the meal.
  • A late bite at the restaurant floor of Yodobashi Camera by Kyoto Station, open later than most of the city. Its Yebisu Bar does crispy chicken skin we still remember from an earlier trip.
4OsakaMon70–81°F
  1. Kyoto
  2. Kaiyukan
  3. Kyocera Dome

30 min JR to Osakasubway

A day trip: the aquarium and a ball game, while the bags travel on their own

  • Before leaving, we booked TEBURA-KUN on our phones to take the big suitcases from the Kyoto hotel to our Osaka hotel. Bags handed to the front desk in the morning, delivered by mid afternoon.
  • The JR Special Rapid gets from Kyoto to Osaka in under 30 minutes. A tap of an iPhone Suica covers it, and every subway in between.
  • Afternoon at Kaiyukan, one of the world's great aquariums. You spiral down around a huge central tank with a whale shark in it. Lunch and souvenirs are in the Tempozan Marketplace next door.
  • Then the Orix Buffaloes against the Rakuten Golden Eagles at Kyocera Dome. Orix won 4 to 0. Bring an appetite: the concourses are lined with food stands, and the beer comes to your seat.
  • Back to Kyoto for one last night.

Japanese baseball crowds cheer in turns. The visiting team's fans fill one outfield section and sing while their side bats, then go quiet for the home team. Stand when the people around you stand.

5OsakaTue65–80°F
  1. Kyoto
  2. Umeda

30 min JR to Osaka

Matcha in Kyoto, then on to Osaka

  • One last matcha stop in Kyoto at Marukyu Koyamaen's Nishinotoin shop, then the train to Osaka.
  • Three nights at Canopy by Hilton Osaka Umeda, in the new Grand Green development next to Osaka Station. It sits on a big new park, and the station's underground malls take you almost anywhere in Umeda without going outside.
  • The evening was the first of the wedding events, which belong to the couple and their families, so we'll leave them there.
6OsakaWed66–80°F
  1. Umeda

On foot

A family day in Umeda

  • Mostly family and wedding plans. In between, Umeda is easy to wander: the Don Quijote megastore, the department stores around Osaka Station, and the underground malls when it's hot.
7OsakaThu64–81°F
  1. Umeda

Wedding shuttle

The wedding

  • The reason for the whole trip. It's the couple's day, so it stays off this page.
8Tokyo BayFri66–77°F
  1. Shin-Osaka
  2. Tokyo
  3. Urayasu

2h30 Shinkansen~40 min to the hotel

Bento, the bullet train, and Fuji out the window

  • Get to Shin-Osaka early enough to shop for an ekiben, a station bento, for the ride. We picked ours at Tabibento, a big ekiben shop inside the station, plus a box of Rikuro's jiggly cheesecake, baked in batches right behind the counter.
  • The Nozomi takes about two and a half hours to Tokyo. We had seats D and E and saw Fuji clearly just after 2:30 PM, near Shin-Fuji.
  • From Tokyo Station we headed out to Hyatt Regency Tokyo Bay in Urayasu for five nights. It runs a free shuttle to Shin-Urayasu Station and to the Disney parks.
9Tokyo BaySat68–76°F
  1. Ueno Park
  2. Ueno Zoo

Train

A slow Saturday in Ueno

  • Ueno Park is free and open all day, with the big national museums, a lotus pond and a shrine all inside it. Ameyoko market street is just outside the south gate for snacks.
  • Ueno Zoo, Japan's oldest, is closed on Mondays. When we went it still had its twin giant pandas. They went back to China in January 2026, and for now there are no pandas anywhere in Japan.
  • A cloudy, mild day with a little drizzle, which kept the park comfortable.
10Tokyo BaySun67–81°F
  1. teamLab Planets
  2. Toyosu

Taxi or train

teamLab Planets and yakitori in Toyosu

  • A 4 PM slot at teamLab Planets in Toyosu. You go barefoot the whole way, and two rooms have water up to your knees, so wear shorts or trousers that roll up. Lockers are free. Allow about two hours.
  • Dinner around the corner at Yakitori Miyagawa's Toyosu branch, two minutes from Toyosu Station: skewers, a full izakaya menu, and a bowl of rice under a glossy cured egg yolk.
11Tokyo BayMon69–84°F
  1. Tokyo Disneyland

Hotel shuttle

Tokyo Disneyland in Halloween season

  • A full day at Tokyo Disneyland. In October both parks go all in on Halloween, starting with giant Mickey pumpkins under the World Bazaar roof.
  • Tickets are dated, priced by day, and sell out on busy dates, so buy them ahead on the official site.
  • Everything happens in the Tokyo Disney Resort app. Premier Access, the paid skip-the-line pass, costs ¥1,500 to ¥2,500 per ride and is bought in the app once you're inside. We used it on the rides with the longest waits.
  • Mobile Order in the same app saves a long queue at lunch. Order before you're hungry and pick a pickup window.
12Tokyo BayTue67–75°F
  1. Tokyo DisneySea

Hotel shuttle

DisneySea, the one to pick

  • DisneySea. If you only do one Tokyo park, make it this one: there's nothing like it at any other Disney park.
  • Our favourites: Toy Story Mania, and lunch at the Snuggly Duckling, the Tangled tavern in Fantasy Springs. Fantasy Springs now has regular standby lines, so check the app for waits before paying for Premier Access.
13GinzaWed66–81°F
  1. Urayasu
  2. Ginza

Taxi

Moving into Ginza

  • Part of the family flew home, and we took a taxi into Ginza for four nights at Hyatt Centric Ginza, on Namiki-dori a few minutes from the Ginza subway hub.
14GinzaThu63–74°F
  1. Ginza
  2. Kudanshita

Subway

An afternoon at Yasukuni

  • Breakfast at the hotel has a fun touch: you bake your own mini croissants in a little press at the table.
  • Yasukuni Shrine and the Yushukan in Kudanshita. The shrine is free; the museum is ¥1,000 and open 9 to 4:30. It tells the story of Japan's wars from the shrine's own, strongly nationalist point of view. Worth seeing, with that in mind.
  • The moat path at Chidorigafuchi and the Kitanomaru Garden are a short walk away and much calmer.
15GinzaFri61–74°F
  1. Asakusa
  2. Ginza

Ginza line, 20 min

Senso-ji in the morning, depachika in the afternoon

  • The Ginza subway line runs straight to Asakusa in about 20 minutes. Senso-ji is busiest from late morning, and Nakamise-dori, the shopping street up to the temple, is best for snacks rather than souvenirs. Draw an omikuji fortune for ¥100; if it's a bad one, tie it to the rack and leave it behind.
  • Around the temple: matcha ice cream in a warm melon pan at Asakusa Kagetsudo, the arcades, a few swings at a batting center, and half an hour with the tiny pigs at a micro pig cafe.
  • Back in Ginza: wagashi from Ginza Akebono, then the basement food hall at Mitsukoshi. We took fruit sandos, kimbap and spring rolls up to the store's rooftop garden for a picnic.
  • The clearest, coolest day of the Tokyo stretch, in the low 70s.
16GinzaSat62–66°F
  1. Tsukiji
  2. Ginza
  3. Haneda

On foot

Tsukiji and a last shopping day

  • Breakfast at the Tsukiji Outer Market, a 10 minute walk from Ginza. Go early: by 10 it's crowded, and many stalls close by early afternoon. Graze instead of sitting down for sushi: grilled scallops, tamagoyaki on a stick and strawberry daifuku from the stalls.
  • Then the shopping list: Loft for stationery and gadgets, the giant Don Quijote for snacks and skincare, and Ginza Six with its rooftop garden. On weekend afternoons Chuo-dori closes to cars and turns into a wide pedestrian street.
  • In the late afternoon we saw family off at Haneda and ate at Haneda Airport Garden, the food hall by Terminal 3, a good place for a meal before a Haneda flight.
17GinzaSun60–74°F
  1. Ginza
  2. Narita

~1h to Narita

On to Manila

  • We left from Narita for a week in Manila. That's a post of its own.

Narita is a lot farther out than Haneda: allow an hour or more from Ginza by train, and check which terminal your airline uses.

The eat list

The hassun course at Sanso Kyoyamato
Kyoto · lunch

Sanso Kyoyamato

Kaiseki · two Michelin stars · book through Park Hyatt Kyoto

A historic ryotei on the hill below Kodaiji. Lunch is the affordable way in: a full kaiseki of chawanmushi, sashimi, a seasonal hassun, grilled fish and wagyu, rice, and a wagashi to finish.

Omi beef tenderloin at Yasaka
Kyoto · dinner

Yasaka

Park Hyatt Kyoto's counter restaurant · seven-course menu

Seven courses cooked in front of you: fromage frais with caviar, conger eel with Kamo eggplant, Omi beef tenderloin, Kyotango rice with hairy crab, and muskmelon to finish.

Hamburger steak with rice at Hikiniku to Come
Kyoto · dinner

Hikiniku to Come

Charcoal-grilled hamburger steak · Gion · book a week ahead or register in person

Patties grilled one at a time at the counter and handed straight to you, with freshly cooked rice. Closed Wednesdays.

Tsukemen and ramen at Tsurukame
Kyoto · dinner

Tsukemen Tsurukame

Tsukemen and ramen · off Shijo

Thick dipping noodles in a rich chicken, pork and seafood broth, a short walk from Pontocho. An easy late dinner.

Matcha at the Kaboku tearoom
Kyoto · tea

Ippodo Kaboku Tearoom

Ippodo's main store · Teramachi · opens 10 AM, no bookings

Matcha in the tearoom behind one of Kyoto's oldest tea shops.

A slice from Apple Pie Lab
Kyoto · snack

Apple Pie Lab

Bakery · on the Sannenzaka steps

Flaky, warm apple pie by the slice, halfway down the steps from Kiyomizu-dera.

Rikuro's cheesecakes fresh from the oven
Osaka · to go

Rikuro's

Jiggly cheesecake · shops around Osaka

Osaka's famous soufflé cheesecake, baked in batches and branded with the uncle's face. Ours rode the Shinkansen to Tokyo.

Yakitori skewers at Yakitori Miyagawa
Tokyo · dinner

Yakitori Miyagawa Toyosu

Yakitori and izakaya · two minutes from Toyosu Station

Skewers plus a full izakaya menu, and a short walk from teamLab Planets.

Matcha ice cream melon pan
Tokyo · snack

Asakusa Kagetsudo

Melon pan · by Senso-ji

Its giant melon pan, crisp on top, is an Asakusa classic. We had the matcha ice cream version.

A Mitsukoshi food hall picnic
Tokyo · food hall

Ginza Mitsukoshi food hall

Depachika · basement floors

Fruit sandos, kimbap, spring rolls and pastries for an easy lunch. Take them up to the rooftop garden.

Five hotels in three cities

Where we stayed

CityHotelWhat we thought
Kyoto1 nightPark Hyatt KyotoLow and quiet on the slope below Kodaiji, with Kiyomizu-dera, Ninenzaka and Gion all on foot. Kyoyamato, next door, does lunch, dinner and the hotel's Japanese breakfast.
Kyoto3 nightsHyatt Regency KyotoAcross from Sanjusangendo, a short taxi to Gion or Kyoto Station, and close to the Keihan line for Fushimi Inari.
Osaka3 nightsCanopy by Hilton Osaka UmedaNew, bright and right on the Umekita park, a few minutes' walk from Osaka Station.
Tokyo Bay5 nightsHyatt Regency Tokyo BayIn Urayasu, with a free shuttle to the Disney parks and to Shin-Urayasu Station. Good for Disney days; anywhere else in Tokyo is a longer trip.
Ginza4 nightsHyatt Centric GinzaOn Namiki-dori, walkable to the Ginza department stores and Tsukiji, and a few minutes from three subway lines.

Next time

Do again

  • Kyoto's big sights at dawn
  • The first train from Haneda straight to Kyoto
  • Same-day luggage delivery between hotels
  • A baseball game at Kyocera Dome
  • A kaiseki lunch instead of dinner
  • Splitting Tokyo between a Disney base and a city base

What we missed

  • Expo 2025. It ran in Osaka until October 13, right through our stay, and we never made it out to Yumeshima.
  • Arashiyama. The bamboo grove and the river, at the far west of Kyoto.
  • Nara. 45 minutes from Kyoto, with the deer park and Todaiji.
  • Dotonbori at night. Osaka's neon and street food, a short subway ride from Umeda.

Skip

  • Sushi at the Tsukiji stalls; graze instead
  • Nishiki Market at lunchtime
  • Kyoto city buses with luggage

Good to know

Late Sep to mid OctSunriseSunset
Kyoto, Sep 275:47 AM5:48 PM
Osaka, Oct 15:51 AM5:43 PM
Tokyo, Oct 55:37 AM5:20 PM
Tokyo, Oct 115:42 AM5:12 PM
YenDollars, fall 2025
¥1,000≈ $7
¥3,000≈ $20
¥5,000≈ $34
¥10,000≈ $68

Entry

US passport holders get up to 90 days without a visa. Fill in Visit Japan Web before you fly for the immigration and customs QR codes.

Trains

Add a Suica to Apple Wallet and top it up from your phone; it works on every local train, subway and bus we used, and at convenience stores. Book Shinkansen seats in the smartEX app, and reserve an oversized-baggage seat if your suitcase is over 160 cm in total.

Taxis

Uber works in Kyoto, Osaka and Tokyo and dispatches regular licensed taxis, so you can pay in the app. The doors open and close on their own; don't reach for them.

Luggage

Hotel-to-hotel delivery (TEBURA-KUN for same day in Kansai, or Yamato from the front desk for next day) beats hauling suitcases through stations. Coin lockers at big stations fill up by mid morning.

Tax-free shopping

This changed after our trip. Since November 1, 2026 you pay the 10% tax at the register and get it refunded when you leave Japan, after customs checks the goods. Spend at least ¥5,000 in one shop in one day, carry your passport, and keep your receipts.

Money and tipping

Cards and Apple Pay worked almost everywhere, but carry some cash for small shops, shrines and market stalls. There's no tipping; good service is just part of the deal.

Manners

Stand on the left on escalators in Tokyo and on the right in Osaka. Keep phone calls off trains. Bins are rare, so carry your rubbish back to the hotel or a convenience store.

Data and apps

An Airalo eSIM covered the whole trip. Google Maps handles train routes and platforms well. The Tokyo Disney Resort app is a must for the parks, and Google Translate's camera mode reads menus.